Was banned on a totally different instance and community despite never commenting in the community.
I suspect I was banned for questioning the narrative in this thread yesterday:
I am a trans person and have no issue with trans people expressing who they are. The mods and admins of blahaj frequently use Gatekeeping as a false umbrella ban for any user they want to get rid of. This is also discussed in yesterday’s thread by some users.
The owners of that 196 space have proven they are unable to let sleeping dogs lie and are hellbent on tearing down all other instances in a tribal war, and have decided to start lurking in other spaces and preemptively banning people like reddit mods.
This is not fair moderation practices, it’s a petty tit for tat because abuse in their community was called out yesterday.
YDI, this that you are/were doing. It doesn’t matter if you are a trans woman. Gatekeeping people’s identities is still gatekeeping. Blahaj bans transmedicalists so you should know better than to try and say it’s okay because you’re a trans woman. In addition the whole "Just asking questions rhetoric isn’t accepted either because it’s what those “polite transphobes” you see on BBC use and honestly they should be banned. Not banning them is to fall for their bullshit and allow them to continue their invalidating and abusive arguments.
@db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com This seems like a rehash of the other locked topics. Lots of bellyaching, very little merit in them.
This one seems pretty settled by now compared to yesterday.
I don’t imagine it will stay that way for long, these threads almost always become a breeding ground for people who were banned for gatekeeping or transphobia to bellyache and whine about blahaj for not allowing blatant or subtle gatekeeping.
Edit: Called it, thread is filled with whiny transphobes and gatekeepers bellyaching about being banned from a privately run Lemmy server for their refusal to follow the rules and respect others.
Trans people are going to be put in camps and you idiots care more about if trolls have their pronouns respected.
Bulling me until I submit to your definitons of my sexuality is ironically gatekeeping.
What a inclusive community for sensible people. FFS
No, your rigid definitions and trying to decide which trans or queer people are valid is gatekeeping and as @MossyFeathers@pawb.social said, your eagerness to capitulate to fascists is harmful. Why would anyone want to welcome you with open arms to their communities when you are doing exactly the same thing that transphobes do, invalidating people’s identities.
Don’t you dare fucking lump me in with fascists.
My identity has been invalidated in favor of people who use gender to troll people who experience actual oppression.
I never thought that i would agree more with reddit moderation policies considering this space was supposed to be better. But kicking trans people out of trans spaces because they don’t think dogs and dragons are people is something even they know is ridiculous. I guess that’s just something that comes from older spaces where they have worked through their growing pains.
Then quite acting like one, and quit trying to act like being trans somehow grants you immunity from being one, because there are indeed trans people who are fascists and who side with fascists and in this thread you’ve been acting like one. Gatekeeping people’s identities and claiming we should because you believe some identities are harmful or causing transphobia. If you don’t see how that’s harmful there’s nothing more to say here, but your continued behavior in this thread reinforces my opinion that you absolutely deserve it.
I don’t want to be equated with people who pretend to be animals and mythical creatures. It’s an insult to actual gender identities that exist in the real world off of the internet.
I thought blahaj was supposed to be the inclusive space for lgbtq people who want to vent about real oppression in reality, not have to justify totally normal and grounded views. I now see you people are crazy and maybe i should block the instance or go to a different reddit alternative.
Do you realize that comparing trans people to these “hair color” gender identities only invaludates actual trans people?
Like look at this from the perspective of a real person in the real world. People can change genders, but they can’t become dogs or dragons. I’m sorry you feel otherwise but that’s how it is.
Do you realize that transmedicalists and the people claiming to be the “good trans people” are literally one step above fascists. You’re sitting here trying to argue transphobic and gatekeeping talking points as if it’s valid or okay. The thing that is an insult to trans people are people like you who feel they have the right to gatekeep others and their gender identities, all under the guise of capitulating to the fascists who want them gone.
Oh and yeah I did compare you to a transmedicalist. your gatekeeping is very much the same flavor as transmeds. Trying to gatekeep identities “for the good of trans people” blahaj doesn’t support that or people who partake in it, because it is a toxic and cruel belief, and the people who perpetrate it are toxic and cruel people. You’re proving that by your continued desire to prove yourself as one of the “good trans people” while gatekeeping and invalidating xenogenders and neopronouns openly.
You calling trans people fascists is not making the case for inclusivity.
Since you say Blahaj doesn’t support trans people, is there a space on this site that does support us?
I’m not calling trans people fascists sweetheart, I’m calling you a fascist, because you are acting like one in this thread and plenty of others.
Oh and unless I’m wrong there aren’t any active transmedicalist communities here on Lemmy and certainly aren’t any anti-xenogender communities. Gatekeeping assholes just aren’t welcome here, doesn’t matter if they’re cis or trans.