• Steve Dice@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Anon is depressed and self-sabotaged because he doesn’t think he’s worthy of love. Therapists should really advertise in 4chan.

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      1 day ago

      That or he didn’t love her, he didn’t say anything about love or emotional attachment or anything, just that she was Asian and fucked him.

      Anon wasn’t after a relationship, he was after a sex toy, and fundamentally misunderstanding what a relationship is and being in one that was entirely loveless was draining on him. He just didn’t realise why.

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        21 hours ago

        You make a valid point but I’d argue that someone who can’t differentiate a want for sex from a want for a relationship still urgently needs a therapist.

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      2 days ago

      but this time I don’t care

      I mean, maybe he’s just happy on his own for now? It’s ok to have moments of doubt here and there (re: “staring at my PC” , “did it do it right”) but just because they broke up with their gf and went back to their self improvement routine doesn’t automatically mean self sabotage and all that.