if you think I’m tone policing, block me and report my comment. Don’t go around accusing people of it to further argue with them

No one claims it isn’t, but taking your mental distress out on others is also not helping

Amongst other things claiming that everyone in blahaj is American is kinda just a dick move. No one owes you a space to spew your “tough love” so to speak. Young people in and outside of America get to hear it daily already from people in their vicinity. You’re not helping.

I have to actively pretend to be someone I am not in a place outside of America, so why would I let you berate me on how I should be willing to have they/them pronouns be used on me? Funny thing is, I sincerely do not care about the pronouns used for me, but the way you go about communicating with people just makes me sick of it.

Your speech is no different than my family telling me to act a certain way to be more palpable to the “cishet population”. I and other people are not obligated to listen to the ramblings of a mentally distressed queer person who thinks we’re all just a bunch of cry babies.