I would wake up from the nightmare.

So you have to create an instance, and be that bad admin.

And then don’t forget to hate yourself ;-)

And the price is you have a cop now, telling us who can talk and what they can say.

Lemmy’s solution is that you can vote with your feet (=choose another instance with an admin to your liking)

Of course the solution is incomplete. Real bad admins remain a possibility.

That is kinda equal to a free world: Real bad humans are a possibility.

But:

Big fat BUT:

If you really want a world where all bad people (according to your own definition) are excluded, then you have turned yourself into that cop that you despise so much.

filtering out […] I can do for myself.

It still means too much legal trouble for the admin if the offending data would be on the server.

My father in law died several years ago,

He made some very strong and very fine liquor, once every year. I still have half a bottle of the good stuff, and now I don’t dare to drink it up.

If you know and understand all these abbreviations and special terms, then you are deep in the mud already. To know if this or that may be a slur cannot rescue you anymore.

I suggest to look for a whole new circle of friends.