• Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    One way to understand them better is to occasionally talk. Cuz like, guys and girls are actually incredibly similar. A couple of conversations a day, with the occasional really good conversation, can go a very long way towards understanding each other. Everything you don’t talk about is one more thing you won’t understand.

    • Who knew?@sh.itjust.works
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      8 hours ago

      Its true. I wondered why I didn’t feel like girls were any different from me and why I had a hard time understanding both girls and boys, then I learned I was trans and autistic

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        22 hours ago

        I’m not hoping the person from 4 chan is also in here, just giving general advice for anyone reading it now.

        • baines@lemmy.cafe
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          21 hours ago

          me as well, it’s not so uncommon, communication is key while true is such a trite idea and ignores all nuance of reality